đź›’ how to snap out of comparison (+ do the work *only you* can do) [OHT 038]
Talking yourself out of action because someone else has already done, said, or sold XYZ?
This message is filled to the brim with metaphors to help you snap out of the fog of creative comparison.
Grocery shopping, tooth brushing, book writing and dedicating... Choose one that resonates and GET MOVING on what matters to you!
*more notes from before I hit record*
Someone else did / said / created x. Why would they want to hear it from you? The impact is coming from inside the house. Your kids. Partner. Parents. Siblings Neighbors. Hair stylist.
You’ve got a one of a kind network rooting for you and your metaphorical rising tide lifts their boats too. LIVE that acknowledgements page. The dedication. The launch party.
See their faces cheering you on before concerning yourself with the whole internet. You're here to live your life. To create your creations.
Your voice has an impact only your voice can make bc it’s from where YOU are. Right now in this moment. Others may not even hear it, but your people will feel it. Play your game. Run / walk / fly / swim your race. You’ll inspire your cheering section like no other.
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Hi! đź‘‹ I'm Nikki.
...Elledge Brown.
Creator of the On Her Terms® universe.
Pro word nerd and mom of three.
I'm a creative advisor, coach, and strategist for entrepreneurial women who love their work, their families, and their alone time.
I'm also a military spouse and former park ranger and college professor with a penchant for almost excessive verbal processing. (You've prob picked up on that by now.)
After over a decade in business and momming, moving from my fave Hawaiian island to my fave Texas town, reckoning with and recovering from my own brand of #onherterms burnout, I've been deep in introspection + experimentation over here:
Got it. Not a dress rehearsal. What do I really want my life to look like? What do I want it to feel like? In each area of life, what are my terms for this season? When I get really honest and ditch the should dos and the have tos…what's left? What’s true? NOW WHAT?
This podcast is a space to track that journey, to share my field notes, to anchor in the stories and lessons my clients and I are learning along the way.
Join me here to refresh your OWN definitions of what matters most to you. Motherhood, ambition, fulfillment, creativity, relationships, inspiration, REST, success, community, and about a squillion other words and concepts that deserve thoughtful consideration.
Can't wait to hear your take.
